Potomac, Maryland (Montgomery County), 1988
I had a major immune system breakdown on April 22, 1988. The challenge had attacked my liver, spleen, gall bladder, and stomach. I was diagnosed with Epstein-Barr virus, hemochromatosis of the liver, and fibromyalgia, which created extreme chronic pain and fatigue.
I literally lived in the library of my home for almost seven months. I could barely walk, could not take the stairs to my master bedroom, could not drive a vehicle, and was told by 12 of my 16 doctors that I was dying.
My first marriage had become estranged, and had already been a challenge for 14 years. So I was left to take care of myself, cook my own meals, and care for our seven-year-old daughter, Kristen.
The situation was overwhelming at best, plus I had employees with Prudential I was trying to manage by phone, mail, and through personal visits to my home. This went on until the summer of 1990!
One night in May 1988 at approximately 11 p.m., I was preparing to go to bed on the library sofa. One of our dogs, a Yorkie named Tasha who never left my side, was with me.
My father appeared to me in a mist above my favorite rocking chair, which I still have. I was not on medication at that time, I promise, and my first thought was actually, "Well, now I'm also losing my mind!" But when Tasha reacted to my father's appearance—she jumped up on my lap, her ears standing straight up, clearly also seeing what I was seeing—I took the moment more seriously.
I heard my father say, not out loud but almost inside my head, "Don't worry. Everything will be alright." Then Tasha whimpered a little. After a moment, my father vanished with the mist around him, and Tasha settled down.
Tasha died later that summer, while on that same sofa bed in the library. She must have known something was wrong with her, as she jumped up to me and died in my arms. I buried her in the backyard, near the woods. May she and Dad both rest in peace.
"My Dad in My Home," copyright 2018 Bernard W. Masino and Amelia Cotter (first appeared in The Haunted Letters: True Tales from a Ghost-Storied Life, 2013)